Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Good bye 08!

Wow what a year it has been for us!! Now that it's nearly over, it seems only a blink of an eye but in reality it was the longest year of my life thus far. Physically, I gained and lost 40lbs in one year. Emotionally, it was one heck of a rollercoaster ride from being shocked to not knowing what to expect to breaking down in tears of guilt before asking for epidural. I'm sure hubby didn't find it any easier listening and watching me go through it all but he did well keeping me/us on our two feet.

Our lives are definitely different now with Katie. We don't think of her as a hindrance to how our life uses to be before her. Obviously, making her was a choice we both agreed to and knew what sacrifices we had to make. She's so worth it no matter how much we miss staying out late, going to a movie, extra room in the car, etc. etc. She's the cutest thing in the world to us.

Unfortunately, we can't always be around to see her be cute. She's starting the New Year off at Grandma's house. I'm going back to work on the 5th and both Grandmothers have agreed to babysitting duties twice a week. We anticipate frequent phone calls the first week or two but all three of us will learn to let go eventually. For Katie, she'll learn her independence and for us to learn to trust our little girl.

We're looking forward to an awesome 2009 watching Katie be mobile and both Yogi and I promote in our jobs. In this economy every little bit helps :o) Best wishes to all of you in the New Year!!

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas!!

On Christmas Day last year we got confirmation I was pregnant. From then on I...

...carried snacks 24/7 to help with the morning sickness,
...trotted around in the cold, wet rain the rest of the season,
...found ways to stay healthy and exercise,
...dealt with the summer heat 110+ degrees,
...carried around 40 extra pounds (at times seem much more),
...took lightrail with the 40lb belly,
...worked till two weeks before I was due,
...took Rolaids nonstop for heartburn,
...endured 24hrs in the labor room,
...bared the pains of breastfeeding,
...adjusted to sleeping 2hr intervals,
...and the list continues!!

All SO worth it for this healthy little miracle to happen!!

Merry Christmas everyone. From our family to yours!!

Friday, December 19, 2008

4 Months!

Gosh how time flies when you’re having fun. I go back to work in two weeks Jan. 5th. I suppose I’m looking forward to a paycheck again but going to miss all the cute things Katie does throughout the day, her smiles, laughs, cries, moans and groans. Not to mention, she’ll be missing me just as much.

Once I go back to work, the plan is to have Yogi’s mom babysit her Mondays and Tuesdays then my mom on Wednesdays and Thursdays. Yogi and I will both be working a 9-day work schedule with alternating Fridays off. She’s been babysat by both Grandmothers every now and then; although, she doesn’t take it lightly and usually puts up a fight for the first hour or two. I know…my poor baby but the time has finally come for her to get uses to the new environments so Mommy and Daddy can make mola for her diapers.

Before I do go back, Yogi took a couple days off this week so we can take a mini vacation to the bay area to visit the new Academy of Science museum and enjoy the holiday lights and sounds downtown. Katie and her cousin Tyrus hungout and enjoyed the museum like going to the zoo. The colorful fishes were their favorite. Amusingly, Katie gave the same interesting stare to a passenger who boarded the train at Castro on our way downtown. Trust me, there were obvious reason the way he/she(?) was dressed…haha…

Katie turned 4 months today and growing in leaps and bounds. She’s getting around to sitting on her own pretty well and those legs don’t ever like to be bent. She might actually run before she crawls! Yes, we’re very afraid! She also slept through the night last night from 9pm-6am. Then we put her back to bed and she slept till 10am. It’s amazing how soon we’re able to say, we SLEPT IN!! Hope it’s not just an early xmas gift cus we can definitely get uses to that sleeping pattern.

Lastly, I’d like to mention our condolences go out to my cousins for my aunt’s passing and our dear friend Cindy’s family for her passing. Two funerals in one week is not how we wanted to end a beautiful year with Katie coming into our lives. Nevertheless, they suffer no more and can rest in peace.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

First Surprise Doc Visit

Wow what a week. Katie broke out with eczema and hubby got sick. Translates to a visit to the doctor's office for Katie, lots of rest for hubby, and endless night shift for me.

Katie had a rash that started on her left cheek a couple weeks ago. At first, she seem fine so we moisturized it with lotions and was able to sustain it. But a few days after, the rash spread to her other cheek and neck. By then, she was very uncomfortable and found all sorts of ways to scratch and rub which made it worst. So, we took her in to see her doctor who confirmed she has eczema. It’s a common allergic reaction typically in cold weather conditions when skins are very dry. As to what she’s allergic to? We haven’t yet figured out but it could simply be the weather. Her doc prescribed a tough dose of steroid cream twice a day to make the rash disappear. Amazingly that is exactly what the cream did. Within hours, the redness lightened and the itchiness subsided. However, because the cream contains steroids, it is not a very healthy solution we prefer to use. Thus, we're researching alternative lotions recommended by friends who have been battling the same skin condition with their kids. Hopefully this evil will go away soon for good. It's tough to see Katie not her usual happy self. At night, we've had to swaddle her and keep her hands tie down out of scratch mode. This also prevents her from playing with her bedside toys when she wakes up :o(

Developmentally, Katie is same-o same-o from last week. Since she’s been so bothered by the rash, she doesn’t have much patience to try anything new apart from sucking on her toys. Not at all a bad thing to have her practice her grip and occupy her hands elsewhere other than rubbing her face. We plan to have a better week skin wise then hopefully she’ll pick up on her tumbling skills.

Above pix taken yesterday so her skin is definitely getting better. Yay!

Monday, December 1, 2008

We're Thankful

It’s 6:30am and Katie is back to sleep comfortably on a full tummy and clean diaper - thought I take advantage of this time and write a blog entry before she wakes up and who knows where the day will go from there.

Thanksgiving weekend turned out great for us. We were especially thankful to have Katie healthy and active with us this year. She had an exceptional time playing with all the grandparents, aunties, uncles, cousins and little friends at a couple birthday parties.

Oh and having nice naps while we take her out and about on the shopping runs. We didn’t go crazy especially on one income till I go back to work next month! Nonetheless, we did complete our shopping list and got what we needed and not much of what we wanted. We can work on that list after I go back to work and file our tax return with our sweet little deduction.

As for an update on Katie, she continues to be a very active baby. She enjoys talking to whoever would talk back and especially verbal when she’s due for a change - verbal meaning baby language and not crying which we think is a cool trick. On Thanksgiving Day she also started holding on to her toy and bringing it to her mouth. If the toy is too heavy, she’ll move her mouth to it. It’s the cutest thing!

I suppose things are back to normal this week. Hubby decided to go back to working at work rather than working from home. Who would have guessed he can’t concentrate at home these days. The good thing is he’s back on a 9 day schedule and gets every other Friday off. I hope to get the same schedule when I go back to work and get the alternate Friday off so we’ll only need 4 days of daycare out of the week.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Balancing Act

She's 1 day past 3 months old and surprised us with a nice treat on a Friday afternoon...

First the good then the bad. On Saturday morning, Yogi's sister and brother-in-law tried to hold her but little did we know, Katie turned on the 'recognition' switch and would not have it. Every time they took her, she cried. Suppose it didn't help that she was cranky and tired.

That same night, we had dinner at my parents'. We left her there for 15-20 minutes so I can drop Yogi off at home then come back. Poor little girl, cried the whole time we were gone and freaked out her grandparents as they were starting to think she was in pain. Once I got back, peace was restored instantly. My Dad wouldn't believe Katie could recognize and prefer Mommy at just 3 months old so I tossed Katie back to him and almost instantly the lips went straight to a frown then the huffing and puffing to the full blown scream. Again, it was near her bedtime so probably throwing a fit at anyone who did not smell like Mommy. It's a nice Mommy feeling but she's going to grow out of this right?

Katie visiting cousin Tyrus for a belly time session.

Some of you have read me contemplating on Facebook whether or not I should cut Katie's infamous hair. I suppose it can stick around a little longer. We're gonna try to keep her warm with bennies soon anyways.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

3 Months

Our cutie pie turned 3 months today! Best of all she's sleeping plenty at night. We can't believe how much she has grown in just 3 months and can't begin to imagine how much new life she still has in her.

Is it just Katie or are all babies loving the morning sun? She's the happiest first thing in the AM greeting us with huge smiles from ear to ear. Sometimes she even chuckles during her diaper change - suppose it can come as a huge relief after so many hours. She also started a good habit of talking back which is music to our ears...for NOW anyway. I can see this habit wearing out on us very soon.

Over the weekend, we visited Apple Hill for the first time and enjoyed it thoroughly. Fall is our favorite time of year and there were plenty of scenic sights to spoil us with.

Too many apples in the basket or on the hill rather.

Wonder how many apples do they eat daily?

Hanging out with Daddy watching a not so exciting Mavs vs. Rockets game.

Katie has a long month ahead of her as she learns to nail her flips and turns, control her head solidly, and start eating cereal. We can't wait! There's really no light at the end of this tunnel in raising a child but boy are there plenty of excitement to keep us going. Yogi and I could have never thought how the smallest things can fill our day with so much joy. You definitely need to be a parent to understand and we're glad plenty of you are or will be =o)

Monday, November 10, 2008

Change is Good

Wow, what a week! Yogi was extremely busy having to go into the office all five days while I was busy figuring out remedies to Katie’s new found ways.

All of a sudden, Katie decided to stop eating and started to push away her bottle at every attempt we try to feed her. Obviously she had to eat and gave in when she’s extremely hungry, tired or being rocked. My Mom babysat her last week and called me frantically to come over when Katie refused to eat after 4+hrs. Even Yogi had a taste of the same when he tried feeding her over the weekend but once he mastered the tricks, Katie calmed and gave in to sucking again. We’re going to try her with my Mom again tomorrow and see how it goes. We also figured she doesn’t like being held in the cradle position unless she’s ready for a nap or hungry. Otherwise, putting her in that position gives her a head start at kicking and screaming. The quick fix is to hold her up right and all is quiet and well again. No doubt, Katie is definitely getting her preferences down and knows exactly how to tell us. I've learned, it doesn't always matter what leads her to these new 'preferences', anything that can calm her down is what really matters.

Despite the new challenges, Katie has sharpened her senses. She’s growing to be a tentative listener. She’s been babbling a lot more and stares at our lips when she hears voices. Lately, she even looks at the foods and drinks that go into our mouths. She’s learning those ‘monkey see’ moves so she can be the ‘monkey do’ soon.

It helps when we continue to broaden her horizon with something new almost every day. We've been keeping busy with lunch dates, made the rounds at my workplace, and visited Yogi's family over the weekend in SF to celebrate November birthdays and the Exploratorium. Today, we broke her into Happy Hour for the first time. Yogi commented that our lives seem to be back to our active ways before Katie but really this is just a phrase when she's able to tolerate all this adventure. Tomorrow is a brand new day...

Little Katie making the cutest yawn ever!...with a little dance afterwards for good luck :oD



Nonetheless, watching her grow (even with the challenges) is the greatest reward as a parent. It gives us a sense of accomplishment that something we created can be smart to live and learn. I’m so going to miss it when I go to back to work in less than 2 months!

Monday, November 3, 2008

Katie's Meat Market

This year has got to be one of the busier years for Labor and Delivery rooms in the area. Come to think of it, most of them are boys (that we know of). Let’s checkout Katie’s bachelor list...

We finally met Corey for the first time at Alisa and Ed's Babyshower this past weekend. He is exceptionally adorable and well behaved.

We also attended Titus's Godfather's birthday party this weekend and saw the little guy move like magic. One second he's in a corner playing with a truck and the next second he's across the room nibbling on something he found off the carpet. He's loving his independence.

Gabrielle likes to take advantage of the great outdoors with his older sister Noelle.

This chunky Ryan is extremely lay back giving big smiles to anyone who comes close. He enjoys observing his older brother get out of trouble.

This pretty boy, Christine is also all smiles. He enjoys hanging out on his swing and watching his older sister play with Elmo.

And Katie’s cousin Tyrus is obviously not in her market but he will be tagging along on Katie's dates as her bodyguard. He's in a cute sushi chef/sumo wrestler costume above...hehe...

From last year, there's...

Elijah sporting his lion costume for this year's Halloween.

Jayden having a blast with Uncle Yogi on a rainy day.

And Jaden wondering why he got stuck with an insect costume when everyone was sailing as pirates.

I'd say Katie has a tough of choice with all these cuties. We'll see if one of them grows on her from now till she's 30!...haha...

Monday, October 27, 2008

Shots

I think I’ve lost count how many weeks old Katie is. Being a parent will definitely kill a few brain cells or replace it with, “…is she hungry, is she hurt, is she too hot...” It never ends.


Last Monday, we took Katie to her 2 month appointment. The checkup went very well. All of Katie’s measurements are normal and she’s a completely average baby. Then, she had her first set of vaccines, three shots (two on one thigh and one on the other thigh). It was more painful for Yogi and me to watch than actually getting the shots ourselves. Once the pain from the shots registered, she screamed as loud as we’ve ever heard her. Yogi held her immediately after and she quieted down almost instantly then fell asleep in Daddy’s arms as we walked to the car. She ran a minor fever the rest of the day but her thighs were painfully swollen. Every time she moved them, she would scream at the top of her lungs and was unable to sleep until we held them down. Poor baby… In the few nights after the shots, her schedule was back to when she first came from the hospital. She woke every 2-3 hours for attention but it’s slowly getting better. Yay!!

Lately, we noticed Katie has been napping lightly. Either she sleeps in our arms or not at all and even when she does, it’s no more than 20 minutes at a time. So, Yogi figured the other day to lay Katie out under the play mat to fiddle with her toys and release all of her energy before nap time. So far, it’s been working pretty well. She’s definitely pooped out and will nap through any noise. There’s no doubt she is growing with energy and we’ll probably have to enroll her into karate next month to keep up with her naps :o)



We continue to be out and about with her any time we get especially in this beautiful Fall weather. She’s getting uses to the carrier (usually attached to Yogi) and enjoys looking around at all the new sights and sounds outside of our house. One night we had dinner downtown with a couple of friends then took a stroll for yogurt afterwards. And yesterday, we shopped around Folsom Outlet to take advantage of the outdoors before the weather really cools down.

We’re looking forward to our first Halloween on Friday. We will be spending it with friends in the pocket area. It has crossed our mines to visit some of you on Halloween and if no treat then we’ll leave Katie’s diaper as a trick…hehe… We haven’t quite decided what Katie will be but there will definitely be pictures. HAVE A GOOD ONE!!

Monday, October 20, 2008

2 Months

Yesterday was Katie’s 2 month birthday!! Woo hoo!! We made it!

We took her to her 2 month appointment today and all measurements are normal. She’s a textbook baby growing at the speed of an average child and doing all the things she should know how to do at her stage in life.

We’re very pleased our hard work has paid off and we have a healthy little girl. Katie also got her first set of shots today. Good thing Yogi works from home today and is able to company us to the appointment. When the nurse made contact with the needles, Katie opened her mouth, took a couple breathes then bloody murder breaks loose. It’s the first time we’ve heard her scream this loud. But once in Daddy’s arms, she quiet down almost instantly and fell asleep on our way to the car. We’re hoping for a smooth recovery from the shots and no bad reactions!

Sometimes we think this parenting gig is easy (woops, am I thinking too loudly?) but really we’ve been very lucky with Katie. She’s been a complete angel moving along on the growth chart and hitting every milestone. Lately, she has been sleeping longer waking only once throughout the night for a feeding; then, she’s back to sleep till daylight. She snoozes in her own room (thanks to our handy video monitor) and once feed and changed, we leave her to fall asleep on her own.

Katie is a lot of fun at home while she’s usually sleeping when we’re out. At times, I think she’s entertaining us more so than we are her. She loves to play with smiles and baby talk in the late afternoon which was normally her most active time of day inside of me.

Katie says hi....


Monday, October 13, 2008

First Road Trip

Let’s do housekeeping with these comments I’ve been receiving. My goal is to create a new post once a week. It’ll usually be early in the week on Mondays or Tuesdays since the weekend is when all the fun happens. As for my weight, I haven’t been eating can’t you tell?! Seriously, I think the breastfeeding is really helping and fast metabolism runs in my family. I gained 40 pounds at the peak of my pregnancy. Now eight weeks after giving birth, I’m wearing my pre-prego jeans! At my postpartum appointment last week, doc confirmed I’m healthy and ready to go for another one…ya right! I’m heading back to the gym this week to work off a few more pounds and tighten up some loose ends. I intend to enjoy the fruit of my labor a little longer before going the other way on the scale…again!

Us at our friend, Carey's bday party over the weekend.

For current news, Katie is napping like a baby. We’ve been out and about almost every day so we’re starting to notice she’s seeing things further, paying more attention to people talking to her, reacting to our facial expressions and much, much more.

Katie and aunty Annie at my parents' house. They babysat her for the first time there last week and had a blast!

We took Katie on a short road trip to San Francisco over the weekend to attend a grownup party and visit family. She loves sleeping in the car (as long as it is moving) so she was knocked out during the rides. She also slept very well overnight waking at her normal times for feeding and changing then back to sleep.

Yogi, Katie and Claudia (Yogi's niece) enjoying a nice day in Golden Gate Park.

Claudia being a great older sister to Katie helping feed, change and dress her.

Claudia reading to Katie and keeping her company. Thanks Claudia! We'll be back soon.

Sunday, October 5, 2008

Lost in a Maze

Today was an exceptional Fall day weather wise in the high 70’s warm enough in the sun and cool enough in the shades. We had lunch with Yogi’s brother and his little family. Afterwards we all visited the Goblin Gardens Pumpkin Patch in North Natomas. Even though, Katie was too young to enjoy any of it, she still made her presence felt leading us through the gates with free admission, making faces at the camera and sleeping like an angel as we hunted our way through the corn maze.

Our first but definitely not our last visit to the pumpkin patch.

I got my pumpkin; we can go now.

Yogi and Katie diving into the straw maze.

Aren't we scary?

The brothers and kiddies ready to give up on this stink'n maze.

I’m sure next year we’ll pay for admission and get our money’s worth doing all the kiddie activities with Katie on her own two feet.